Life presents us with challenges day in day out. Pain is one of those challenges we all get presented with at some point.
Pain and feeling physically limited increases the stress we perceive. It feels as if we have no control over our life, our pain, and we want to close down, become small. When that happens, our world and life become smaller, but it does not help reduce the stress, or give us more control.
If we keep looking outside ourselves for a solution, waiting for somebody to present us with the answers to our problems, or handing us the magic pill, we are not going to find it. Only when we look within ourselves will we find the answers. We all have the potential to help ourselves.
Mindfulness is an inner discipline, a tool to help you face and overcome the challenges in your life with awareness. Mindfulness helps us to open and expand when we want to close down and become small. Mindfulness helps us understand the connection between emotions and pain. We start accepting our emotions for what they are, without judgment, and we realize with the acceptance the pain and stress will ease.
Understanding and accepting that our physical body is connected to our mental and emotional mind is the key. It is widely accepted that stress causes ulcers, high blood pressure or even heart disease. Even though the mechanisms are not clear yet–how emotions can cause pain and illness–it would be an oversight not to include the possibility that you are dealing with not just a body but a mind as well. Excluding the mind from finding a cause for pain, especially chronic pain, would be an oversight.
I highly recommend reading more about this if you are interested. Mindfulness based stress reduction is a scientifically based program to help deal with stress, pain and life’s challenges.
Recommended books:
Full Catastrophe Living by Jon Kabat Zinn
Healing Backpain by John E. Sarno
Coming soon to the Welcome Back Centre in Kamloops: Mindfulness Based Moving.